I LOVE YOU IN SILENCE

HOW TO SAY I LOVE U WITHOUT UTTERING A WORD…….

A little creativity and going the extra mile in the
"I love you" department will pay huge dividends in
your relationship, so if you are not already saying
"I love you" in different ways, start now with the
following styles:


1. Stop off on your way home from work:

Pick up your sweetheart's favorite "thing." Maybe it's
a special flavor of Haagen-Dazs, the pizza with that
wacky assortment of toppings, a new book by his/her
favorite author, a CD he/she has mentioned wanting
to get, a t-shirt with her/his (or as a couple your)
favorite sayings on it. How about the laundry he/she
keeps forgetting to pick up. Do not make a big deal
of this little "love token" by some grand verbal
announcement of it, instead leave it somewhere in the
house where he/she will soon find it.

2. Throw that secret look:

Send a smile or smirk that only the two of you understand.
No words need to accompany it. Maybe it is a wink or nod
or other signal the two of you have established that means,
"I love you." Sending it to your lover when it is most
unexpected, gesticulates tremendous warmth and affection.
In all its silence, this beacon of love can end an argument,
set up a soon-to-be intimate encounter or just remind your
partner you are thinking special thoughts about them right
in the middle of, well, nothing in particular.

3. Slip a supportive note or affirmation in her purse/his
jacket pocket:

Though it may be days or weeks before he/she finds and sees
it. No need to ask, "Did you get my note?" Just let your mate
come upon it randomly. When your mate does, the impact will
be stupendous!

4. Demonstrate that you are trying to correct that annoying habit:

Make an obvious effort to stop doing it. That could include
picking up your dirty socks to cleaning the empty coffee cups
off the center console of the car to tossing your gum in the
trash when you have the urge to smack it. Do not say, "See,
I'm working on that." Your actions will speak for themselves.

5. Send one of those "just because" or "it made me think of
you" cards or books:

Send one that has a message in it that only the two of you
would get -- an affectionate or humorous one -- that reminds
them you would not want to belong to anyone else. Shhh,
do not mention it. By sending it, you have said it all.

6. Do a good deed for your partner:

One they know you typically avoid taking on and expect them to
do instead. This might be taking out the trash, cleaning up
after dinner, making the kids' lunches, running to the grocery
tore, etc. Knowing that you did the chore or task he/she knows
you generally dislike can speak volumes of how you feel about
him/her.

7. Post your anniversary date in a place where your mate
will see it:

Whether it is on the bathroom mirror, the refrigerator door,
inside the checkbook or day planner or on their dashboard.
Next to it, write, "Best day of my life." No need to say
"I love you," you just did.

8. Extend a gentle touch at least once a day:

Not as a request for intimacy, but as a gesture of warmth
and respect. A slight and tender stroke across his/her shoulder
or a few soft fingertips across the cheek can speak loudly
and clearly.

It's time for you to make your list. When you can, add to it.
Be creative. No matter how spectacular you currently believe
your relationship to be, notice how much more rich it becomes!


WRTTEN BY DR. Stacy D. Phillips
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